It was fun while it lasted but most unattached people in 2024 agree that the carousel of loneliness that are romance based dating games (apps like Hinge, Bumble and Tinder) are no longer working for Sydney singles. Here are the best ways to meet other single people in the Harbour city.
1. A bar where everyone is single
Okay, technically Thursday™ also has an app (a dating app that only works on Thursdays) it’s not compulsory for what have become the absolute cream of the IRL dating events crop in Sydney. They also host exclusive singles meetups that are designed to take the pressure off dating, offering a fun, laid-back environment every Thursday.
With up to 250 singles gathering, this is your chance to meet and mingle with like minded folk. Whether you’re looking for romance or just want to enjoy a night out, this event promises great music, positive vibes, and endless opportunities to connect. Just a bar, full of singles.
Where: Various spots around Sydney, from salsa dancing to gastro pubs
When: Every single Thursday night
Price: Varies by experience
events.getthursday.com/sydney
2. Dinner with Strangers, Sydney
Dinner with Strangers is a wildly fun event series where you sign up, answer a few nosy questions about your likes and dislikes, and then show up at a secret restaurant with a bunch of people you’ve never met. It’s like a dinner party, but with a side of spontaneity. This is your chance to mix with 5-10 new people. And yes, this could be where you meet your next great love or just enjoy a meal that isn’t microwaved.
Where: Venue is a secret until after you sign up
When: The next round of dinners are on September 13, 20 and 27
Price: $12.51 (Your dinner is on you)
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3. Fitness and flirting with Unofficial Run Club
For the past two years Sydney’s run clubs have completely taken over the apps when it comes to meeting cuties. Join the Unofficial Run Club, a phenomenon that’s turned jogging into a full-blown social event. The Friday morning runs, featuring scenic routes past the Harbour Bridge and the Opera House, attract hundreds of Sydney’s fit and fabulous. So, lace up those sneakers and hit the pavement—who knows, you might just find your soulmate between stretches and water breaks.
Where: Bradfield Park, Alfred St S, Milsons Point NSW 2061
When: Fridays at 6 AM
Cost: Free
Unofficial Run Club
4. Swipe right in real life
Matched Speed Dating is like an app but with real people and not taking place on your couch. In less than 5 minutes, you’ll fill out a profile and then meet up for a whirlwind of quick-fire dates. With two drinks included and no pesky match cards, it’s all about fun, chemistry, and maybe a bit of liquid courage. With a track record of 95 per cent mutual matches, it’s a high-stakes game of dating without the awkward small talk.
Where: Various locations
When: September 12, 17, 18, 20, 24
Price: $73.88
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5. Dating dinner party for the over 58 set
Who says dating is only for the young and restless? Encounter Dating throws a chic dinner party for singles aged 58 and up at The Oaks Hotel in Neutral Bay. It’s an evening of gourmet bites, great conversation, and the chance to meet 20 other singles in a relaxed setting. Swap seats, mingle, and maybe find that special someone who also enjoys fine dining and a good chat.
Where: 118 Military Rd, The Oaks Hotel, Neutral Bay, NSW 2089
When: September 11
Price: $38.06
Encounterdating.com.au
6. Mindfulness meets matchmaking
Looking for something a bit deeper than the usual chit-chat about your job? Conscious Connection Speed Dating combines tantra, psychotherapy, and mindfulness in an event designed for those craving authentic connections. Led by love experts Rachel and Bevan Pfeiffer, this unique experience offers a blend of heart-centered conversations and self-reflection exercises. It’s not just about finding a date—it’s about forging a meaningful connection that resonates on a deeper level.
Where: The Livingroom, Carr Street, Coogee NSW
When: Next event is September 14, 6:30 pm
Price: $53.19
Consciousconnections
7. Lol your way to love
If you’re tired of the swipe slog and want to add some laughs to the mix, Comedy Dating might be your perfect match. This live stand-up show, hosted by Sunday Singles, features real singles going on blind dates while comedians provide a hilarious commentary. It’s a fun, relaxed way to meet new people and possibly find love—or at least a good laugh.
Where: The Comedy Store; 122 Lang Rd, Moore Park
When: Saturday, October 5th, 04:30 PM
Tickets: Unreserved Seating: $55.00
(Early Bird Release): $40.00
comedystore.com.au